Thursday, 09 October 2008
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Listen, I'm not responding any more to people who insult my intelligence or don't know how to debate without hurling insults. That's such a turn-off. There's nothing feminine about a girl who acts like a man. Maybe that's what's wrong with the world today. Men are turning into women and women into men.
I don't care how much women protest. Bottomline: guys don't respect girls who have sex. They might say they do or act like they do in the locker room or bedroom, but those are not the girls guys fall hardest for or respect. Easy girls are a dime a dozen and not even memorable. Girls who are pure, respectful, sweet and feminine are rare..and worth turning the world upside down to obtain.
It takes really low self esteem and lack of self control (hence, easy) to have sex with a guy before you really know whether he's worth it. Same goes for guys.
Unfortunately, most guys are crafty enough to tell a girl everything she wants to hear in order to get what they want. Kind of like politicians. After that, you wonder why your calls aren't being answered. It's not right, but it's the nature of the beast. Bottomline: if you want to beat the system, you have to have high standards for yourself/others. Peace.
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Comments (2)
Wow, where do you live? I want to move there. Here in New York, all the
males I know are interested in the girls who are just like that. I come
with my own quirks, but for the most part, I honestly am one of those
"sweet" and "respectable" girls. But I find the opposite to be
true--while most guys will want to find the nice girl, they actually
fall for the girl on the other end of the spectrum (and I don't want to
refer to them as skanky, because not all of them are, and not all of
them have low self-esteem--some of them simply like to experiment)
because they tend to be the type of girls who look like models, are
experienced in... different ways... and they give off the impression
that they're confident and sexy and fierce. Which they may be--some of
my friends are this way, and I don't judge them (though I do feel
jealous time to time)
Meanwhile, the dorky girls like me get shunted to the side because we
wear our glasses low and we get nosebleeds everytime we talk to a cute
guy...
@the_bonsai_tree@xanga - I live somewhere in between the midwest and southeast. however, location doesn't guarantee anything, i promise you.
if it helps, any man who doesn't value you for who you are isn't worth your time. just keep busy and try to enjoy what you like doing. we like it when a girl is passionate about things. usually that's when we notice you. when you're too wrapped up in your own stuff.
try not to worry about the girls who look like models or seem to be more experienced. maybe they get most of the superficial guys but there are still good looking guys who don't care about just looks. those girls get boring after a while because they all look and act the same. also, most guys don't want to date a girl who has been around too much.
girls who act fierce can come across as bossy and arrogant...and that's a turn off. all i can really say is give it time. glasses and shyness are nothing bad at all. it's sweet. don't lose hope. the right guys will notice you. just be patient.
good luck.